Everyone has different expectations from their prospective partners. Vijay Deverakonda is no different. An old video of the
Kushi actor, who hinted at being in a relationship in November 2024 without taking any names, has been going viral on social media these days. The year-old video features a question and answer segment where he shares the
qualities he desires in a partner. “The qualities I look for in my partner are like a bunch of things. I am very specific when it comes to the person I have with me as a partner or somebody I am in a relationship with. I need someone that I can laugh with. I need someone who enjoys the things that I enjoy, like I love food,” Deverakonda, 35, said.
Stressing that everything is better when shared, he told Mana Stars: “Like food is better when you share it with someone or a moment is better when you share it with someone. Laughter is better when you share it with someone. So, everything is better when shared. You need to find the right person to share these things with. I’m quite a needy guy. I need to be taken care of.”
Can there really be an ideal partner?
The idea of an ideal partner is often romanticised, but in reality, it is less about perfection and more about alignment, said
Dr Chandni Tugnait, MD (A.M) psychotherapist, coach and healer, founder and director, Gateway of Healing.
“Alignment in values, emotional depth, and the ability to navigate life’s
complexities together. Beyond surface-level traits, what truly defines an ideal partner is their capacity to create a relationship where both individuals can evolve without fear of judgment or stagnation,” said
Dr Tugnait.
Here’s what one would look for in an ideal partner
Emotional fluency over control: A great partner doesn’t just listen; they understand emotions deeply. Instead of dismissing or controlling feelings, they acknowledge, validate, and create a space where emotions are freely expressed without fear of judgment.
Challenge, not competition: Healthy relationships thrive on growth, not rivalry. An ideal partner challenges you to evolve but never competes to prove superiority. They celebrate your wins as their own and push you toward personal success without resentment.
Adaptability over rigidity: Life is unpredictable, and so are relationships. A partner who embraces change, rather than resisting it, helps navigate life’s uncertainties. They remain open to new experiences, perspectives, and adjustments that strengthen the relationship.
Effortless silence, deep presence: Beyond words, genuine connection lies in comfortable silence. A partner who doesn’t rush to fill gaps with noise but makes their presence felt deeply creates an unspoken sense of belonging.
Resilience over romanticism: Fairy-tale
love stories fade; resilience is what sustains relationships. An ideal partner faces challenges head-on, working with you rather than withdrawing or seeking escapism when things get tough.
Boundaries with warmth: Love is not about saying “yes” to everything. “
A strong partner knows when to set and respect boundaries with kindness, ensuring that both individuals feel emotionally safe and valued,” said Dr Tugnait.
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